A memorable evening in Lhasa

Some pictures from a great evening in Lhasa.

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And finally, this is the place, the four of us sat down and had a really frank and open conversation about some of our good and bad points encountered during this trip.

Finally photo

 

The rules of engagement were, with the person making the point the other two had to agree with him. At times some comments were personal, but everyone took it in the spirit of openness. Four guys, all with strong personalities spending almost 7 week together, you are bound to encounter personality clashes, these occurred more in the early stages of our trip, but there has been a distinct mellowing to the present. In a way everyone had made their own personal adjustments to accommodate the environment we face ourselves in i.e.  daily travelling couped up in a car for eight to nine hours a day, accommodation and food issues, at times cultural issues and other small matters, have a cumulative effect. The comments were not just about the trip, they were also about how we could improve our lives when we get back to the comforts of our own homes.

 

Some overall comments:

Not a good listener.

Makes the assumption without hearing the full story.

Abrupt and can cut someone off.

Does not stick with the point in question, but tends to deviate to what he really wants to talk about.

Have to find more time for yourself.

Should try to work more smarter.

 

Some good points mentioned:

Generous.

Very loyal.

Hard worker.

Great person and deserves better.

Would trust him implicitly.

 

The good thing about the conversation, we all took the comments on board and will try to make improvements, where necessary during the remainder of the trip and beyond, when we reach home.

 

It was a mature conversation, no sabre rattling or otherwise and we all came away as if we all have gained something from this open conversation.

2 thoughts on “A memorable evening in Lhasa

  1. How it effects anybody in different environment. It is nice to know how it is changing things for you. Keep it up.

  2. As human beings we are all different in sutle ways with our own ideas & opinions but sharing & respecting others views& adjusting & learning,improves our future .Its nice to know you guys have the opportunity to share & care.Enjoy each other’s company .safe journey ahead.